Stress Do's and Don'ts

A study done by the American Psychological Association found that 48% of respondents noted that they feel like their stress has increased over the last five years. With the everyday roles and responsibilities on our plates, it’s no wonder we’re stressed and overwhelmed.  But too much stress can lead to sickness, burnout and even depression and anxiety. The blog today features One DON’Ts and Three DO’s to help destress when things get tough.

Question: Let’s dive in, when you’re stressed, what’s on your Don’t List?

Michelle: Number one hopefully happens before you get stressed.  Don’t Over-Schedule Yourself. Some of our stress is self imposed, make sure you give time in your schedule for relaxation, sleep, etc. Now some of that sounds easier said than done. Let’s talk about what is on the DO list to help other and yourself in stressful times. One of the Do’s is to focus on the present.  There may be a lot of challenges in the future, but the present is all that is in our control, we need to spend more time focusing on what we can control and let the future come what may. The old adage that worry is like a rocking chair, it gives you something to do but doesn’t get you anywhere, is true.  Spend your time thinking about the things in your control.

Question: Many of our viewers have taxing jobs and a lot of personal responsibilities what would you recommend they do first? 

Michelle: Ask for help.  I think you’re right, the demands we have on our lives AND the worry combined are a lot so we need to not go it alone. Whether you're a CEO or a stay at home parent we all need help with our responsibilities. So whether it’s hiring good help or trading with friends - not only does it lift a burden, but it helps us remember that we’re not alone. Community and solidarity are great antidotes to stress. The final tip I have for you to de-stress is to create a “Play List”.  In my book The Make It Happen Blueprint, one of the ways we tackle the feeling of being overwhelmed is through things that bring us joy.  It can be making time for a hobby, reading a good book, or even learning something new. I recommend to corporate clients and high performance individuals to make sure they do something every day that takes their mind off the stress and also helps them develop personally with things they enjoy.