We’re all contagious. If we’re sick, someone else could it. What are you spreading? In this video I share the story of the pimples and zits (don’t worry it’s not a gross story!) and I also share the whys and hows of spreading joy wherever you go!
Time management may not be your forte, but there is a way for you to own your time and own your day!
In working with professionals and organizations all over the country I have heard one thing that has surprised me (or maybe it shouldn’t). All types of people that I come in contact with will pull me aside and say, “What if I hate my job?” I’m starting to talk more about this when I consult with the leadership team. In this video I share the two choices you have if your truly hate your job.
Is there a goal you want, but your current efforts aren’t helping you get the results you desire? In this KSL segment we are talking about for strategies to supercharge your goals and your results.
Here’s the segment
Here are the books I recommended:
Of all the personal development books I’ve read: How Will You Measure Your Life by Clayton Christensen is my favorite https://amzn.to/2IUwjQ3
This book changed my business and made it more profitable in one easy read. Profit First by Mike Michalowicz https://amzn.to/2GUCb9H
1. The Leaders Voice by Clark and Crossland https://amzn.to/2DoU3ay
2. Made to Stick by Chip and Dan Heath https://amzn.to/2IuNwyZ
3. Tribe of Mentors by Timothy Ferriss https://amzn.to/2IuOrQi
4. Yes You Can by Natalie Turner https://amzn.to/2HnduD2
5. It’s Your Ship by Michael Abrashoff https://amzn.to/2GuOZU0
6. Leaders Eat Last by Simon Sinek https://amzn.to/2DlAK1M
7. Power of Storytelling by Ty Bennett https://amzn.to/2GuqPZJ
8. Atomic Habits by James Clear https://amzn.to/2XnUdGw
9. Rejection Proof by Jia Jang https://amzn.to/2IrTD7t
10. Building A Story Brand by Donald Miller https://amzn.to/2Is0GwH
11. Where There’s Hope by Elizabeth Smart https://amzn.to/2UJwR1b
12. The Coaching Habit Say less, ask more and change the way you lead forever by Michael Bungay Stainer https://amzn.to/2Gs9gbE
13. Crushing It by Gary Vaynerchuck https://amzn.to/2DhrRpJ
14. Good To Great by Jim Collins https://amzn.to/2GuQce0
15. Dog Poop Initiative by Kirk Weisler https://amzn.to/2DmMtNx
16. Dare to Lead by Brene Brown https://amzn.to/2UMZXwH
17. Radical Candor by Kim Scott https://amzn.to/2VbahxY
18. Four disciplines of Execution by Stephen Covey and Chris McChesney https://amzn.to/2VaTye8
19. Energy Leadership by Bruce Schneider https://amzn.to/2Pmsofa
20. Killer Angels by Michael Shaara https://amzn.to/2IurBYI
21. The Once & Future King by T. H. White https://amzn.to/2Pf8zpQ
22. Flow by Millay Csikszentmihalyi https://amzn.to/2IuAUYD
23. Execution by Ram Charan https://amzn.to/2GlcKwk
24. The Forgotten Man – Amity Shales https://amzn.to/2PhdZRn
25. The 12 Rules for Life and Anecdote for Chaos – Jordan Peterson https://amzn.to/2DlR3LM
Sheryl Sandberg, author of the book Lean In, writes that we should stop telling little girls they’re bossy, and start telling little girls that they have leadership skills. As these women enter the workplace, communicating, speaking up and feeling part of the conversation can be a challenge, without being labeled as “bossy”.
I did a Q&A to answer some of these questions about empowering women
Question: What’s your first recommendation for women to find their voice in an organization?
Michelle: Contribute in meetings. Speak up when you agree. Provide additional ideas when you disagree. Don’t just leave the comments for the vocal few. Even introverts need to find their voice and contribute on their teams, and in their organizations. Stand up for people, champion projects and share your voice.
Question: When there are problems on their organization or team, how can they speak up and contribute without sounding bossy?
Michelle: Find and share solutions more than complaints. One of the ways you can add the most value to your team and organization is to provide solutions without complaining. This is great tip for men and women. Sometimes in an effort to encourage change we share all the things that aren’t working, but it’s hard for management to respond because it can be perceived as having a bad attitude. Instead, provide and offer solutions and be creative when it comes different ways to address issues. Managers the trait they wish every employee had was the ability to problem solve without complaining.
Question: What if a “problem” escalates into a disagreement, or if you feel like you’re not quite sure how to respond?
Michelle: One of the best ways to find your voice is to know what to say AND when to say it. When things get heated, give yourself permission to table the conversation and revisit it when emotions cool down. Also, practice the phrase “It seems like you’ve had time to think about this, could you give me a day to think through my thoughts and I can come back to you with some ways we can resolve this issue” or “I may need a day or two to think through this situation, could we revisit this conversation on Friday after I’ve given it some careful thought?” Sometimes you need time to consider the right response so you don’t say things you don’t mean.
Question: What if someone takes your idea after you have already shared it?
Michelle: This is the MOST COMMON complaint we hear at our events. Women will share an idea in a meeting and then later in the meeting or another day someone will share the SAME idea and claim it as theirs. That can be discouraging, and if you’re gutsy, be willing to stand up for your idea. However, “Thank you for validating my suggestion” sounds better than “Hey, that was my idea!” In the moment, that can be tricky to pull off without attitude. If this seems to be happening to you frequently, practice a validation statement before you go into your next meeting. Also, remember that passion is okay. If your emotion feels competitive or combative you may be criticized for your emotions. Lead with passion and a commitment for the best interest in the team and organization, and you may find that this positive approach inspires people to lead with passionate positivity.
We love men and aren’t men bashers, but there is something powerful about a group of women getting together to learn and support each other. For more information about our annual Power Women event for female professionals, check out:
This segment on KSL Browser 5.0 is for all the women professionals who don’t feel “heard” in their organizations. In this few minutes, I share three things you can do to speak up and make a difference at your place of business.
If you want to learn more about our High performance leadership event for women, go to http://www.PowerWomenLead.com
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