How to Be Happier at Work AND How to Be Happier in Life

Listen, it’s March 2020.  If you’re like me, you’re in a Stay at Home order of some kind as our world is fighting COVID-19.  I have so much to say on that matter, but for now, I was planning to launch this video this month and decided I would still do it.
Now, more than ever, we have to find happiness in the work that we have.  Whether it’s at the office or at home. AND someday (please, please!) we’ll all be back at the office and we’ll need these tips then, too.
Here’s the truth – we often work more than we’re home.  Yet what’s happening at home affects our work and what happens at work affects our personal life.  In this video I share some tips that will help you with both.
Enjoy!

The art of letting go of a grudge

Fox 13's The Place Segment

I was recently on Fox 13’s The Place to talk about something that we have all experienced at least once in our lives or are currently experiencing, grudges. In this segment I share 4 ways to let go of a grudge. Head on over and listen to the segment today.

 

The art of letting go of a grudge

Like The Top of My Head – Three Ways to Set The Example for Phone Limits With Kids

Many of us would say that our relationships matter the most and yet our noses are stuck in our phones and people know us like the top of our heads. Here are some thoughts about being present with my kids and others I love. I want them to know my smile, and they way I looked them in the eyes and NOT that my hair is thin and they can see my scalp. 😉

This is something that I have added to my resolutions for the New Year!

 

The Plastic Bag Principle

This video, The Plastic Bag Principle, has been 10+ years in the making. When I started speaking on motivation and leadership I shared this story. 4 years ago I wanted to make it into a narrative video and I stalled. Last year I committed to my Marketing Blueprint Workshop attendees that I would have it done in a year.

As I often teach my own clients, accountability is an incredible driving force. it may not be “perfect” but it’s done! And quite frankly, I’m proud of it and excited to share it with you!

Spreading Joy – The Story of the Pimples and Zits

Mustache Power Productions Video

We’re all contagious. If we’re sick, someone else could it. What are you spreading? In this video I share the story of the pimples and zits (don’t worry it’s not a gross story!) and I also share the whys and hows of spreading joy wherever you go!

45 Free, Cheap or FUN Date Ideas

One of the keys of High Performance and Happiness is making relationships a priority.  If you’re married or have a significant other in your life, I HIGHLY recommend weekly date night.  Making time for the ones you love helps them to know that they are important to you AND keeps the relationship alive.  Memories and connections keep relationships thriving.

Not sure what to do? Do you ever spend half of your date saying, “What do you want to do?” with the reply, “I don’t know, what do you want to do?”

Make a list!  My friends and I came up with a list of things we could do in our community that were both free or under $5, as a reminder that dates DON’T have to be expensive. They also don’t have to be “dinner and movie”, or our usual, “run errands and go to Costco.”

Your budget may be different, so choose some free things and some things within your budget.  Make the list now, and then you’ll have weeks worth of ideas waiting.  Check out your city’s recreational website for community events, concerts, activities, farmers markets, and more!

While this list is specific to where we live, perhaps it will give you ideas to generate your list!

Things you can do for free in Utah County & Provo, Utah:

  1. Go dream house hunting.
  2. Go for a drive up the canyon. (Provo Canyon, American Fork Canyon and Nebo Canyon are close!)
  3. Go for a drive up to Squaw Peak.
  4. Go to Pioneer Museum on 500 West in Provo.
  5. Go to BYU Art Museum for the free exhibit.
  6. Drive to Sundance and walk around the grounds.
  7. “Rent” movies from friends.
  8. Take a picnic to the park.
  9. Go to the Deseret Industries or Good Will and look around in the back for treasures.
  10. Go visit an elderly or widower in your neighborhood.
  11. Do service somewhere together. (community options available at justserve.org)
  12. Go to one of the free concerts in Provo in the summer.
  13. Go to free movies in the park in Provo in the summer.
  14. Put the kids to bed and have a candlelight dessert in the front room.
  15. Play a game together after kids go to bed.
  16. Go for a walk and talk about what you want to do when you are empty nesters and retired.
  17. Go to a new development and walk through unfinished homes.
  18. Walk on the Provo River Trail.
  19. Go “window shopping” at a mall.
  20. Go dream furniture shopping. Sit on every couch to find the one that’s most comfortable.
  21. Go to the library or bookstore and read magazines or books. Talk about the funny things you find.
  22. Go somewhere crazy and people watch. Don’t you ever wonder what their lives are like?
  23. Go to the Springville Art Museum.
  24. Take a tour of your Youth. Drive around to different places and tell funny stories.
  25. Drive to Bridal Veil Falls and wade around in the water.
  26. Drive up to Vivian Park with a blanket and watch the stars come out. Take bug spray!
  27. Find festivals. Peach Days, strawberry days, art festivals in small towns, Llama Days etc. Often free to get in to watch the concerts and see the booths. Can also be great for people watching.
  28. Go for a hike.
  29. Put the kids to bed and pull out old pictures of your marriage and of each of you as kids. Again, tell funny stories.
  30. Drive somewhere remote. Turn up the music in the car and dance outside. (or make-out inside).
  31. At Christmas time – drive around and look at Christmas lights. Play Christmas music or the radio.

 

Things you can do for under $10:

  1. Buy of bag of popsicles and go hand them out just outside or at the testing center at BYU.
  2. Go get ice cream.
  3. Go to the grocery store. Each person has $2.50. Split up and come back in 5 minutes with the biggest thing you can find for $2.50. Pick a winner and take your food to the park.
  4. Get a foot long sub sandwich and share. Take it to a park.
  5. Rent a movie from Redbox or Amazon Prime.
  6. Take $10 to the DI and find a treasure you want to take home. Or, each person gets $5 to buy the other a gift.
  7. Go to the Farmers Market and try 3 new fruits or veggies, or buy a loaf of fresh baked bread.
  8. Go Karaoke (available in downtown Provo)

Splurge date ideas:

  1. Go to a trampoline park.
  2. Go see a play
  3. Go to a concert.
  4. Take the tram ride at Sundance.
  5. Walk the Thanksgiving Point Gardens.
  6. Get pedicures.

Living The Mompreneur Life Without Guilt

There is a fun YouTube series that provides fun,honest, inspiring kitchen table style chats about real life for real moms called The Momoir Series.  It will have tips, ideas, question expectations and give voice to modern mom life.  With it’s interview style, each chat takes on a certain topic or notion, and of course, includes side notes and funny stuff because that’s mom-life for real.  And guess what?  Yours truly is featured in this week’s video!  We take a good look at “failure” and how to embrace it as a teacher and even a blessing!
 

Check it out and leave a comment & a like!  I would love to know what you think!  I know Lynn Bodnar (creator of the Momoir Series) would also appreciate your feedback!!

Cirque du Soleil – CRYSTAL

A Breakthrough Ice Experience

Cirque du Solei lis thrilled to return to West Valley City with its coolest arena show yet—CRYSTAL. This unique arena production—Cirque du Soleil’s first-ever experience on ice— showcases synchronized, freestyle and extreme skating alongside circus disciplines such as swinging trapeze, aerial straps and hand-to-hand. CRYSTAL will perform at West Valley City’s Maverik Center (3200, Derker Lane Drive) from Thursday, March 7 through Sunday, March 10 for six performances only.

Watch world-class ice skaters and acrobats explore their new frozen playground with speed and fluidity as they challenge the laws of gravity with never-before-seen acrobatics. CRYSTAL fuses circus arts and the world of ice skating in a stunning new production that will take the audience on a journey into a surreal world where figure skating blends with acrobatics and aerial feats.

Directed by Shana Carroll and Sebastien Soldevila, Crystal, our misfit heroine, takes you on an exhilarating tale of self-discovery as she dives into a world of her own imagination. Feel the adrenaline as she soars through this surreal world at high speed to become what she was always destined to be: confident, liberated, and empowered. CRYSTAL invites you to suspend reality and glide into a world that springs to colorful life with astounding visual projections and a soundtrack that seamlessly blends popular music with the signature sound of Cirque du Soleil.

Tickets for CRYSTAL are now available online exclusively to Cirque Club members. Cirque Club membership is free. Benefits includes access to advance tickets, special offers, and exclusive behind-the-scenes information. To join, visit www.cirqueclub.com.

General ticket on-sale for West Valley City performances of CRYSTAL will be available starting October 5 at 10 a.m. Tickets are available for purchase online at www.cirqudusoleil.com/crystal.

To get 30% off use this code! bit.ly/Crystal30MAV

CRYSTAL is suitable for all ages.

There will also be  a Crystal Cube Scavenger Hunt held (details coming soon). There will be 30 cubes at a special location and will be hidden throughout the location. Each will have a voucher where they can redeem for a pair of tickets. These tickets will be for opening night.